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African American Newborn
The reasons behind the transracial adoption
Why the future parents do are looking to adopt children from the race other than their own and culture? There can be number of reasons behind this. For instance:
- Number of newborn available: Because the number of newborn babies of the same race and culture is very less as compared to other race, which tends to the transracial adoption. The term transracial adoption also considered to be the faster adoption process or adoption in short time span.
- Age of the adoptees: There are number of adoption agencies which do not allow the people who are above forty years adopt easily. But this kind of specification is not considered in the transracial adoption.
- Need of the children: Nowadays there are number of people who think that there are children who actually need good homes and family. So they go for the transracial adoption for the welfare of those children.
- Experience: there are number of cases in which people wants to or specially seek to adopt child from the different culture in order to enhance the experience of their own family. One can enjoy this experience if and only if he or she has their own biological children.
The preparation for adopting an African American baby or Newborn:
Before anyone of you enters into the processes of adopting an African American newborn baby, he or she has to prepare themselves for several issues. Try to find an agency which will help you in solving these issues and will help even after the adoption processes are over. If one peruses the independent adoption then he or she may not get training to follow the underneath points.
- Always involve your friends and the family. While one may feel no discomfort in adopting an African American newborn but his or her family may not embrace over the issue easily. So try to involve them in the process of adoption and provide them with updates of the adoption process or the updates achieved towards your goal. And also discuss your own expectations and wishes to fit the child in your family. But don’t mind if they offer their opposing view points, one has to calmly learn how to fend all the negative views which come into the way now and in the future.
- Try to examine yourself completely. You and your sweet family will be viewed with different eye once this newborn comes into your home and life. So can one handle this discrimination? What will be your attitude regarding the race and the culture difference? And the most important question which one should ask from himself or herself “Can we do anything for sake of our child”?
- Glance at your own town. This basically means that how difficult would be for your neighbors and people of your town to make life with you and your child? Will they really accept this change and what would happen if they won’t? Would you be comfortable in seeking out other neighborhood, school or city if necessary?
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